When we talk about veterans and addiction, gambling isn’t usually the first thing that comes to mind. But for many women veterans, gambling is a hidden addiction—quiet, socially acceptable and often overlooked. What makes it even more complex is the deep connection between gambling addiction and PTSD, especially among those who have experienced trauma during or after military service. 

At Tapestry, we know the signs of this silent struggle. Women veterans face a unique set of challenges—many of which are misunderstood or ignored altogether. We’re here to shine a light on the issue and help break the stigma around seeking help. 

The Link Between Gambling and PTSD in Women Veterans 

Gambling can feel like a form of escape—especially for women veterans dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder. After experiencing trauma during deployment or military service, many women turn to gambling as a way to manage emotional pain, anxiety or boredom. The bright lights, the distraction, the rush—it can all provide temporary relief from the heaviness of trauma. 

But like any addiction, that relief doesn’t last. And the consequences can be devastating. 

Women with PTSD may be more prone to impulsive behaviors or risky decision-making, both of which play into the cycle of gambling. Over time, what starts as a coping mechanism can spiral into a compulsive addiction—one that’s often harder to recognize because it’s not always associated with visible symptoms or withdrawal. 

Why Women Veterans Are Often Overlooked 

Despite the growing number of women serving in the military, many still feel invisible as veterans. Society often defaults to viewing military service through a male lens, which leads to a lack of recognition, support and specialized care for women. 

This stigma can make it harder for women veterans to admit they’re struggling—especially with something like gambling addiction, which is often seen as a “nontraditional” problem. Add in the weight of PTSD, military sexual trauma (MST), and the pressure to appear strong, and it’s easy to see why so many suffer in silence. 

At Tapestry, we know these stories are real. And we want you to know that you’re not alone. 

Signs of Gambling Addiction in Women Veterans 

Gambling addiction doesn’t always look like high-stakes poker or constant casino trips. For many women, it can be more subtle. Common signs include: 

• Obsessive thoughts about gambling 

• Hiding gambling behavior from loved ones 

• Using gambling to numb trauma or anxiety 

• Chasing losses with more gambling 

• Financial distress from repeated losses 

• Guilt or shame after gambling 

If any of these sound familiar, it might be time to take a closer look. 

How Tapestry Can Help 

At Tapestry, we specialize in treating women with co-occurring disorders, including gambling addiction, PTSD and other trauma-related issues. Our trauma-informed approach means we don’t just treat the addiction—we explore the root causes and provide real tools for healing. 

We offer: 

• Safe, stigma-free environments designed for women 

• Individualized care plans tailored to veterans 

• Therapy that addresses trauma, addiction and emotional health 

• Peer support from others who understand military service 

• Long-term recovery planning and reintegration support 

Our team is here to walk beside you through every step of your journey—without judgment, shame or expecting you to “just get over it.” 

You Served. Now Let Us Serve You. 

Being a woman veteran comes with its own set of challenges—but it should never mean suffering in silence. If gambling has become a way to cope with PTSD or trauma, help is available. 

Let Tapestry be the place where healing begins. Contact us today to learn more about our women-focused programs and how we’re helping veterans reclaim their lives—one step at a time.